Have some soon-to-be brides(s) & groom(s) in your life who you want to send a gift to this holiday season? We get it, the lure of cute things from stores like Indigo that say “bride to be†can be easy and fun. But don’t. Here are a few reasons why:
- It’s low hanging fruit, lots of people will be buying them those trinkets
- They are left burdened with gifts that you have long forgotten about but they feel guilty decluttering from their home.
- There’s no guarantee they will use them. Wouldn’t you rather know that your money is going to something that will be used.
- People are looking for connections and experiences rather than things.
- Everyone is becoming more and more conscious of sustainability and the environment, so there is no longer the shame of showing up without a conventional gift.
Here are some ideas that benefit you, the recipient and the environment:
- Money. It is not tacky anymore!
- Gift card to a restaurant. Maybe they are budgeting so they don’t get to eat out as much, so wouldn’t a night out at their favourite local spot be so nice?
- Services like a manicure/pedicure, facial or haircut.
- Gift-card to a store they can purchase things for the wedding like jewelry, veils, shoes, etc.
- Striking a deal to not give gifts this year. Gift the gift of relief to your cash strapped bride(s)/groom(s).
If you’re still stuck, you can always ask them. If 2020 has taught us anything, it’s that relationships and the people you love are the most important part of life.
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